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I don’t know if it’s just my own experience or if it’s like that with everyone but my experience trying out online dating for the first time have been very horrible. It was suppose to be a place to find love but no way.
One month ago, I decided to take advantage of technology to see if I can meet a nice lady for a relationship. After doing a little research I decided to try Badoo. With great excitement, i set up my profile, uploaded some of my best pictures,
set my bio, applied filter to set age range of ladies I want 22-28. BAM I saw a huge pool of ladies to select from, omo it felt like I was in heaven.
Little did I know that’s the beginning of my trouble.
I started matching with girls, diving into DMs, many girls were liking my profile and sliding into my DM, I was like in 3 days I’ll find my future wife. Boy was I wrong.
Then the conversations started.. These are my bitter observations.
1. There is hunger in the land
Vast majority of these girls are on the app to do hookup even though they disguise it with fancy words like “friendship”, or “fun” or
“dating”, or “networking” etc. Almost all the girls I met say they live in Ikoyi, Lekki, VI, Chevron, Orchid and other
highbrow areas but same girls are always asking for urgent 2k, 5k, data sub etc. These girls are even more broke than girls in the village. Hunger has turned the girls to stone-cold zombies without feeling or fear. Ready to follow anyone ready to spend. I can’t count the number of girls begging to come to my house even though they’ve never met me before.. Even me I became scared on their behalf.
2. Too many young single mothers forming single
I met lots and lots of single moms, some as young as 20 doing HK online. I get turned off when I see these
so called singles only to find out they have kids somewhere with one guy. I even met one with 3 kids for 3 guys. It was horrible.
They’re all hustling online of course, not there for love.
3. What you see vs what you get is always different.
You will see a very “fine girl” online, her profile picture looks like she’s a model or beauty contestant but when u see
them in real life, they’re completely different. Looking haggard and tattered. You’ll see a light skinned girl online only to see
black skin girl in reality. I almost hid under a table when one of them walked into the lounge to meet me. I started
insisting on video calls to get a feel of what they really look like instead of relying on their over filtered/makeup pictures and getting rude shock at the meetup point.
4. Even working class ladies are not left out.
I met so many working class ladies on the app doing HK, my phone is full of the lewd pictures and videos they sent me via whatsapp trying to
hustle for my attention. All I just need to do is say yes and they’ll land on my door step. Am sure these ladies have boyfriends
somewhere who don’t know they’re living double lives. Some of the few reasonable ones I met were far from my location to make any kind of
relationship impossible.
No shame anymore.. Some will tell you straight up that they’re here for hookup, if you’re not interested don’t bother chatting them and so on..
Please if you have a good homely lady of your own and you’re in a stable relationship just hold her tight because it’s brutal out there.
